Comments:

Stefani - 2006-03-24 07:08:32
I hope both situations are rectified immediately. Poor Becca! Dorm life is one of the best things about college. I hope the rest of her college years more than make up for this dingbat of a roommate. (Where people get such a feeling of entitlement is beyond me!)
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Bex - 2006-03-24 07:14:08
I cam sympathize. I had a similar situation when I was 18 - not at college but at my job after highschool in Boston. I rented a tiny studio apartment and got a roommate whom I had not known before. She barged in, took over, had boys (sailors actually) sleeping there with her (in one tiny room) and finally I signed the place over to her and moved out myself... I know it was the coward's way to go, but I moved to Washington, D.C. then to be nearer my future husband, so I didn't want to stay anyway. A bad roommate is the pits! My sympathies to Rebecca and to you! Although if it got your mind off your heachace, I suppose that's a plus????
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debbie - 2006-03-24 07:34:24
whoa. maybe i mean woe. whew. maybe i mean shoe. find one or two. toss lightly my way. i'll go practice my aim until sheer perfection. ;-)
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Carol - 2006-03-24 08:30:34
My daughter had a roomate like that. Not so much a boyfriend thing but she took over, ate my daughter's food, had my daughter doing HER laundry and was such a slob. I couldn't even walk in the room for all the mess. She also wore my daughter's clothes without permission my daughter took to sleeping in other dorm rooms so the girl ended up having a room of her own. This girl even dressed for the next and slept in her clothes all night so she wouldn't have to get up so early in the morning. Unfortunatly my daughter dropped out school and she had a 4 year scolarship. Ack! Hope Rebecca gets this worked out.
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bb - 2006-03-24 09:02:26
Rebecca and her other roomies need some agressiveness training.
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LA - 2006-03-24 09:19:59
That was one of the first things I asked my lawyer, if Alex would be left high and dry. She said he wasn't entitled to child support per se, but his tuition and whatever else we've been covering for him like dorm and meals, car insurance, living allowance, etc HAD to be maintained until he graduated as it was an established child related expense. And that Wolf's college could be written into the divorce agreement the same way. My sons WILL get their education despite their father's wandering dick. Sorry your lawyer fell down on the job. As for the horrible roommate, I agree that the college should be doing more and so should the girls themselves. When locked out of the room there should be an immediate call to campus security. They also might try locking Lover Girl and her stud out of the room and see what happens. Selfish people never voluntarily change. If they cared what their actions did to other people they wouldn't be so horrible in the first place. Much like a certain president and his pals. ~LA
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Sunshyn - 2006-03-24 10:52:52
I can top Becca's roomie problems. I spent 1988 in, um, "rehab" (of the locked variety maintained by the state), and one of my roommates was, um, gay, and HER stud was always there, AND they, um, did it with me and the other roomie in the room. No college officials to complain to there, and gay roomie had a lot of juice with the, um, officers, and they never messed with her. I was SO happy when they finally let her out. The room I had BEFORE that room, they were dealing heroin...
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Jenn - 2006-03-24 14:27:14
I was a Resident Assistant -- can you talk to him/her? OR have Rebecca do it? They work FOR the RD and I know keep a closer eye on the suites if alerted to do so. I would totally have her call campus police -- then the RA HAS to get involved because they have to write an incident report. All reports usually go to Judicial Review Boards....then something might happen!
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victorvic - 2006-03-24 17:58:28
~V~ THE HELL WITH THAT....!!!! IF HE DOESNT BELONG THERE, HE NEEDS TO GO, FOOD TAKEN OUT OF THE FRIDGE!!!!.....OoooH No!..... we cant have that S*IT GOING ON!!!..., and if they feel the need then i am sure there are places for them to go and be all over each other!!!.... what you think?..., and to move again..... WHY!!!!, STAND THE HELL UP..... make the other move!!!!, she there to learn right?, then why should her attn: , be TAKEN away from that due to these fools,,that feel they are at the holiday inn!!! GRRRRRRRRRR!!!!...... GET EM GIRL!!! :) ~V~
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Denver doug - 2006-03-25 02:20:42
They get ya' comin' and goin' don't they ? I do so hope that both matters get settled to you and Becca's satisfaction. Her Dad's attitude ? About his flesh and blood ? GRRRRRR
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Jim - 2006-03-25 09:02:12
Now that college has been officially notified, I would suggest that Rebecca should document everything and call the RD or campus security at any future infraction. You might also tell the college that this boyfriend situation is creating a sexually hostile environment and threaten a civil rights complaint.
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